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If you're a father

Ohio's default for unmarried parents, and the steps to establish your standing as a parent.

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The default you need to know

If you were not married to the mother when the child was born, Ohio law (ORC § 3109.042) makes her the sole residential parent and legal custodian until a court issues an order saying otherwise. Signing an acknowledgment of paternity establishes you as the legal father, and with that your support obligation. It does not by itself give you enforceable parenting time.

To secure a relationship with your child, you generally have to file in juvenile court and ask for an allocation of parental rights or parenting time.

Steps to establish standing

  1. Establish parentage, by acknowledgment, genetic testing, or court adjudication.
  2. File for parenting time or custody in the juvenile court of the county where the child lives.
  3. Propose a concrete schedule. Many counties publish a standard parenting-time schedule as a starting point.
  4. Keep records: time spent, communication, payments.

What not to do

  • Don’t withhold support because parenting time is being denied. Ohio treats the two as legally independent.
  • Don’t keep a child past an ordered exchange time, even with good intentions. That can be charged as interference with custody.
  • Don’t argue your case online.
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