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ORC § 3109.051: Parenting time and companionship
Ohio's statute on parenting time for parents and companionship or visitation for relatives, including the factors courts weigh in setting schedules.
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If you're a grandparent or relative
Companionship and visitation for grandparents and other relatives under Ohio law, and how to protect your relationship with a grandchild without making things worse.
If you're a father
Ohio's default for unmarried parents, and the steps to establish your standing as a parent.
Every Word an Exhibit
Courts sometimes order separated parents to communicate only through a paid co-parenting app. These products generally do what they are meant to do, and that is the problem. A record built to capture what parents write, screened for tone rather than truth, sees little of what happens at the door. And the people who order the app are often not the people who pay for it.
The Standard Schedule
A family law attorney, guardian ad litem, and visitation-center owner wins election to the bench, dies of a stroke on election night, and wakes in a place that runs on his own forms. Nobody there is cruel. They just follow the procedure he wrote. A story in the spirit of classic anthology television, followed by a plain account of what each tool in it is and how to fix it.
The Second Arrow
An imagined conversation between a Roman emperor who wrote his private notebook far from his children and a teacher who left his own son and later took him back. They do not agree on everything. They agree that a father in a long custody case cannot control the ruling, can control what he adds to it, and should not mistake surviving for surrendering.
Two Sets of Books
Ohio family law often answers the same question two different ways, depending on which answer serves the institution. Support arrears count against a parent in custody, but lost parenting time is no defense to support. A sixteen-year-old can be tried as an adult but cannot choose where to sleep. The proceedings are private, except when a parent owes money. This essay walks through eight of these contradictions, one provision at a time.
Paying to Be Watched
In many parenting orders, one parent's obligations run through paid, reporting professionals, and the other's run through nobody. Contact becomes the one part of the order that stops when a parent can't pay, and the children keep aging the whole time.
The Second Household
After a separation, grandparents often become a second household: the rides, the meals, the appointments, the exchanges. The law counts that labor when it is convenient and ignores the relationship when it ends. The children lose a household, and no one records the loss.