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ORC § 3109.042: Unmarried mother as default custodian
Under ORC 3109.042, an unmarried mother is the sole residential parent and legal custodian until a court orders otherwise. What that default means for both parents.
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If you're a mother
Your rights and obligations, and how to protect your child's relationships with both parents and with extended family.
If you're a father
Ohio's default for unmarried parents, and the steps to establish your standing as a parent.
Two Sets of Books
Ohio family law often answers the same question two different ways, depending on which answer serves the institution. Support arrears count against a parent in custody, but lost parenting time is no defense to support. A sixteen-year-old can be tried as an adult but cannot choose where to sleep. The proceedings are private, except when a parent owes money. This essay walks through eight of these contradictions, one provision at a time.
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Before any court weighs interests, it decides whose interests are on the ledger at all. Ohio's family law makes that membership decision in ways that tax parents without representation and govern children without consent, sometimes long past childhood.